56:00 -- yeah, but don't EXPERIMENT on men... so when you're flipping the question, because you want to see if this could work, keep in mind, if you decide to make a man your 'dabble', or experiment, it'll be eventually understood, and you'll just add to his experience that can add up to men not wanting to have anything to do with women....
1:04:27 -- oh, poor nicole, she doesn't think it's right that men should 'get off and get what they need', but women are trying to figure out how to 'get off and get what they need' without men too... for decades women have been signaling to men that men are not needed. enjoy the bed that man-hating-women made.
1:07:50 - "not even looking at women as people" -- are you kidding me? Women talk about men as if they are a LIST of "what can this man do FOR ME, and how can he behave according to MY ideas, and so on" -- not exactly looking at MEN as people, but more a UTILITY. You can KEEP that world.
1:13:10 - "sex is so much better with romance" -- for the sake of discussion alone... how much sex WITHOUT romance has he been involved in? Is he able to say that from KNOWING, or only from assumptions generated vicariously?
1:01:35 - now here's a messed up idea... the idea of PROJECTING onto men the idea that they are uninterested if they do NOT have to "HUNT DOWN THEIR PREY"... this is a rapey idea if you ask me. It project something on to me which comes from WHERE? Nicole's idea of what she WANTS men to be like? There are DIAMETRICALLY OPPOSED ideas of men floating around there. 180degrees out of phase and non-self-consistent. We do NOT want men to be predatory. We expect some predatoriness. STFU. Women want to EXPLOIT men's fierceness for their own benefit? So you can be 'safe' or something? There are these self-contradicting expectations of men. Always, "what parameters of men do i EXPECT to be present to fulfil my self-contradicting expectations"... and what is SHE offering? Imbalanced equation -- loud and clear. Start talking ALSO about why any man might EXPECT YOU (or your 'hot & smart & empowered' audience) to be -- but NOT from what you IMAGINE men want, but actually TALK to THEM without PROJECTING fantasy ideas onto them.
that projection that men only want what they have to HUNT down is a ideologically loaded/violent assumption.... also the idea of trying to figure out how to game/formula-ize a generalized idea of men is why you wind up where you're at. because you're playing with IDEAS of men, instead of just interacting with them like human beings instead of biological-platform-scroller games
It looks like she's trying to seduce him with her trollop makeup, lipstick, and fake blond hair. Nothing ever changes.
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